Men are dumb?

Ok so IM out with this friend! A female!
And we are bantering and having fun. Good food wine and laughs.
So we start talking about our X's. She tells me these stories of hers and refers to the guy as Satan.
I call my X psycho number 5. All good fun!
During this conversation she blurts out "oh men are so stupid"
I say HAY and she touches my arm and laughs and says "oh but not you" with this sly smile on her face.
And i have heard this from so many women. They hide this attitude from men though.
But i have eased dropped on conversations wear the attitude is the same.
Even in our current media i see it. Commercials where the girl is hot and all confident and the guy is a big dork and tripping over himself as the girl mocks him somehow. Yea its all in fun but its the same on sitcoms for the most part.
He's a dork and she's all that.
Men are dumb! and women have the upper hand and can easily manipulate them. HA HA!
And yet i see this all perpetuating the problem. The great divide between men and women.
And i see relationships suffer for it. Women complain they cant find a good man yet all men are automatically stupid.
The soul connections we all seek is impossible with this kind of attitude i see today.
I cant blame only the women for this Men perpetuate this stereotype by well, being stupid!
They except this roll women have carved out for them.
Personally i find it offensive and degrading ahh but i guess as a white Male today its my turn to be dealt that blow.
After all we are now to be seen as what is wrong with the world. i have to agrea actualy.
As the old boy network thats pulling all the strings these days is all old fat white guys. all they have left is power and money to get them laid. but i digress. back to the topic at hand.
But the point being Love and closeness will never be achieved by this behavior or belief system.
The very thing women want eludes them because as much as they THINK men are dumb its not true of a lot of men.
And by women being bitchy and manipulative men get sic of that and start to look around for someone new that will respect them more. we all want the person we are with to think well of us and when there is this underlined disrespect it is sensed by the other and creates resentment. its the poison that starts the fights and snide remarks and eventually your demise as a couple.
So i implore all women to counter this attitude by looking at how male oppression and derogatory attitudes towards you makes you feel. Invoke change in self and men will follow suit these days and give you the love and respect you actually want and need. Not the sudo respect your getting because they don't want to hear you bitching.